The Use of the Terms “Brother” and “Sister” by Editor

Review and Herald Publishing Association · Takoma Park Station, Washington, D. C. · Dec 23, 1915

The Use of the Terms “Brother” and “Sister”

By Editor

We have received letters from several of our readers deploring the tendency in our church fellowship toward a departure from the old-time use of the terms “brother” and “sister.” Why should the use of these terms be considered objectionable on the part of any one? They are Bible terms. They have the authority of long usage. Indeed, we find these terms employed today not only by professed Christians, but by many members of worldly societies. Somehow we like the terms. We would much rather be addressed as “brother” than “mister.” Even when a stranger approaches us on the street and addresses us as “friend” or “brother,” it serves to kindle in our heart a feeling of warmth and fellowship which no other terms can create.

Of course it is perfectly proper on many occasions to employ the terms “Mr.,” “Mrs.,” “Miss,” etc., and it must be left for each one to use his judgment and discretion as to the form of address which he shall employ. We believe, however, that in our church relationships, as far as possible, it would be better for us to continue the old forms of address. They will convey to others a kindliness of feeling and fellowship on the part of the speaker which cannot be expressed by the ordinary forms of address.