Meddling by Agnes Lewis Caviness

Review and Herald Publishing Association · Takoma Park Station, Washington, D. C. · Dec 23, 1915

Meddling

By Agnes Lewis Caviness

AGNES LEWIS CAVINESS

It is very easy for us to imagine our little folks are too young to understand many things we want of them. One eminent professor of child study has said, “You may be sure your year-old baby understands about three times as much as you give him credit for.” The sacredness of personal property is a lesson that must be learned early. We should leave as few perishable things as possible about to tempt little fingers; at the same time the home ought not to be turned over to playthings. I do not believe that seventeen months is too young for you to “spat the paddy” that takes mother’s things. Then, when the offense is repeated, one must take time to sit down and say, “Put it back, dear; you remember mother does not let you have that. You may have this [offering in exchange some unforbidden object], but you must put that away.” Then you will have to stay and see that you are obeyed. It will take time; and your beans may be burning at that minute; but run put more water on them, and come back to your lesson. Be in earnest, but do not scold. Meddling is an unlovely habit, but it can be overcome; and then your little daughter will understand the difference between her own things and mother’s, and will not feel hampered in respecting other people’s rights.