Christian Courtesy

Review and Herald Publishing Association · Takoma Park Station, Washington, D. C. · Jul 6, 1916

Christian Courtesy

It is not surprising that Christians should sometimes differ as to their views regarding Bible interpretation, Christian duty, methods of work, etc. We can readily account for this on the basis of the difference in education and experience. But it is surprising that Christians should feel unkindly toward one another on account of their difference of views. In this surely they demonstrate that they are not wholly actuated by the spirit of the Master, even though professing to be his disciples. And it is stranger still that two Seventh-day Adventists, simply because they differ over some detail of faith or method, should cherish toward each other unkind feelings.

When feelings arise in our hearts toward our brethren and sisters with whom we differ, we should consider well the true spirit which actuates us. Are we seeking Christ's glory and the advancement of his kingdom? or are we striving to have our own way? If the former, we can afford to wait patiently for the Lord to work upon the heart of our brother and reveal to him a knowledge of the right way. If the spirit of selfishness actuates us, then we can well understand why we are moved by the spirit of impatience and irritation.

We have often seen two attorneys, representing opposite sides of some trying case, argue for hours against each other in court, and upon adjournment leave the courtroom arm in arm, chatting with each other in a most friendly manner. We have seen politicians representing different views of government, each, in public discussion, standing strenuously for his own position and opposing the position of the other, meet in a social way with the most kindly and courteous consideration. Should Christians fail to do as well as men of the world? Because some brother holds opposing views to our own, should we use him coldly and regard him critically? Kindly courtesy marked the attitude of the Lord toward every one with whom he came in contact. Even the most plainly uttered truths, and scathing rebukes were uttered in love, and in tones of kindness. If we truly possess his spirit, this will be the attitude we shall sustain toward our fellows, whatever may be their attitude toward us.