CHILDREN'S CONFIDENCE

Publishing Committee · Battle Creek, Mich. · Jul 31, 1860

CHILDREN'S CONFIDENCE.

Do you want to learn how to make the children love you? Do you want the key to unlock the innermost recesses of their natures? Then sympathize with them always. Never allow yourself to ridicule any of their little secrets. Never say, "Oh pshaw!" when they come to show a marvelous top, and "I can't be troubled," when the hard knot won't be untied, and obstinately refuse to make four on their small slates.

Kites and knots are only the precursors of elder thoughts and deeper trials which the parent may one day plead in vain to share!

Don't laugh at any of a child's ideas, however odd or absurd they may seem to you—let them find your sympathy ready in all their wonderments and aspirations.

It don't take much to make a child love you and trust in you, and the benefits to him are absolutely incalculable. O how much better it is for children to bring all their cares, and troubles, and temptations under the gentle eye of a wise parent. What a safeguard it is for them to feel that there is always a kind ear to listen to their doubts and griefs, and a gentle shoulder for their little heads to nestle against.

Respect their rights; never think you can say bitter things in their presence, or do unjust actions. They are the finest discriminators of fair and unfair in the world. Somebody has said, "When you are inclined to be cross to children for being slow to learn, just try a minute to write with your left hand. See how awkward it proves, and then remember that with children it is all left hand." Above all don't be ashamed to let them know you love them.—Life Illustrated.