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Biblical Methods for Church Discipline and Restoration
What is the biblical method for restoring an offending church member?
What is the biblical method of dealing with a member of a church that is hurting the community?
AdventAI
The biblical method of dealing with an offending church member begins with private, individual labor aimed at restoration and proceeds through established steps of church authority if the individual remains impenitent Matthew 18:15-17. This process is essential because God holds the church responsible as a body for the wrong course of its members.
The Step-by-Step Process for Restoration 🕊️
Initial Private Labor: If an offense is known, a wisely selected member should first speak with the individual alone in a spirit of kindness to show them their fault and persuade them to desist Matthew 18:15.
Secondary Effort: If the first effort does not result in reformation, a committee of two members should make a second visit to establish the facts and continue the work of persuasion Matthew 18:16.
Church Involvement: If the member refuses to hear these witnesses, the matter is brought before the church body Matthew 18:17.
Civil Accountability: If the offense involves a violation of civil law and church efforts fail, it is appropriate to make a formal complaint to the proper civil officer to perform their duty.
The Responsibility of the Church Body ⚖️
Collective Accountability: The Lord holds the entire church accountable for the sins of its members, especially when they neglect the afflicted, the widow, or the orphan.
Removal of Wrongs: God will hide His face from His people until they perform their duty and remove wrongs from among them.
Necessary Discipline: The church must not speak lightly of the duty to administer censure or rebuke, as Christ commanded that plants not planted by the Father be rooted up Matthew 15:13.
Preserving Purity: It is a painful but necessary task to separate those who prove themselves unworthy of fellowship to maintain the honor of the cause of God 2 Thessalonians 3:6.
Handling Persistent Disorderly Conduct 🛡️
Withdrawal of Fellowship: Believers are commanded to withdraw from every brother who walks disorderly or refuses to obey the word given through the apostles 2 Thessalonians 3:6, 14.
The Purpose of Separation: When a member is disfellowshiped, they are not to be counted as an enemy but admonished as a brother, with the hope that being separated from the company of believers will make them ashamed and lead to recovery 2 Thessalonians 3:14-15.
Bridling the Tongue: Since the tongue is a world of iniquity that can defile the whole body, those who do not bridle their tongue possess a vain religion and must be corrected James 1:26James 3:6.
Internal Reform: The entire body of believers must maintain a decided reform in their habits and practices to preserve clear minds and healthy bodies.
The Spirit of the Labor ❤️
Avoiding Harshness: All labor should be done without a spirit of retaliation, envy, or jealousy, which only degrades the principles of truth.
Refining Character: True salvation means deliverance from every habit that drags humanity down, requiring a thorough conversion of soul, body, and spirit.
Unity in Counsel: Those in positions of trust must work in harmony with the decisions arrived at by the general body of believers in united council.
The Ultimate Goal: The objective is to cleanse the soul temple of sin and restore the member to a state where they glorify God in both body and spirit 1 Corinthians 6:20.
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Other than matthew 18:15 is there other ways the bible or ellen white suggests for how to deal with members who are hurting the community?
AdventAI
Dealing with members who harm the community involves a deep sense of personal responsibility and a commitment to restorative labor that follows divine order. Beyond the specific steps of Matthew 18 the biblical method emphasizes individual effort, the influence of church leadership, and the health of the entire body to prevent and correct such evils.
Individual Responsibility and Personal Effort 🤝
A Work That Cannot Be Done by Proxy: Every follower of Christ has an individual work to engage in the salvation of others and the maintenance of church order.
Direct Interaction: When a brother is in error, go to him in humility and sincerity to talk about the matter before resentment ripens into malice Proverbs 25:8-9.
The Power of Love: The labor should be filled with Christ’s love and sympathy, using reasoning that appeals to the person's better judgment rather than using sharp or severe speech.
Winning a Friend: If the erring one hears you, you have not only gained a friend but have potentially saved a soul from death and hidden a multitude of sins James 5:20.
Church Discipline and Corporate Authority ⚖️
Delegated Authority: God has conferred upon the church the power to act in Christ’s stead for the preservation of order, purity, and discipline.
Ratification in Heaven: Whatever the church does in accordance with the directions given in God’s word regarding discipline is ratified in the heavenly courts Matthew 18:18.
Removing Dishonor: The church bears the responsibility of excluding from fellowship those whose un-Christlike conduct brings dishonor on the truth.
The Role of the Whole Body: No single officer or committee should take the responsibility of disfellowshipping an individual; instead, the entire church must take action after Christ's instructions have been followed.
The Role of Leaders and Ministers 🛡️
Faithful Stewardship: Church officers and conference leaders must pray and plan to keep the churches in good working order, cultivating their part of the vineyard with mental power and keen perception.
Teaching Personal Accountability: Newly converted members should be educated immediately in the principle of personal responsibility and the danger of spiritual despotism.
Testing Doctrines and Actions: All relationships and doctrines within the church must be brought to the test of the law and the testimony to ensure unity in spirit Isaiah 8:20.
Preventative Measures and Spiritual Health 🌿
Temperance and Judgment: Intemperate habits, especially in eating, pervert the judgment and are a fruitful source of church trials; therefore, temperance is essential for rational thinking and acting 1 Corinthians 9:25.
Guarding the Body Temple: Since the body is the temple of the Holy Ghost, any unhealthful habit that injures the physical machinery also afflicts the soul and dishonors God 1 Corinthians 6:19-20.
Education of the Youth: Proper discipline and training of children and youth are required to develop moral energy and a sense of individual accountability so they do not grow up to be a burden to the community.
Restoration Over Destruction: The work of the church is to be one of restoration, reflecting the delight of heaven over one sinner who repents Luke 15:7.
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