p. 8 | How to Choose Friends

Review and Herald Publishing Association · Takoma Park Station, Washington, D. C. · Aug 4, 1910

How to Choose Friends

IN a matter so important as the making of friendships, there should be the greatest care. A distinct choice should be made. We think it would be well for young people to observe a few rules in the choice of friends. Let the following, at least, be thought of:—

Never choose others as friends simply because they have money, or belong to what is called “good society.” There are many belonging to wealthy families and moving in fashionable circles who are entirely worthy of confidence; but they should be selected for their worth, and never for the material advantages their friendship seems to offer.

Never choose others as friends merely because they dress well, or are attractive in appearance. Young people often make serious mistakes in choosing their friends by externals.

Never choose as friends those who make a mock of religion. True friendship and religious reverence are twins.

Never choose as friends the superficial or the selfish. True friendship must have depth of nature, and must be as willing to give as to receive.

Choose as your friends the pure, the good, and trustworthy, no matter what their station in life, or the amount of money they may have at their command. And, having chosen, hold your friends as a sacred possession.— Selected.