p. 1 | Say the Loving Words Now

Review and Herald Publishing Association · Takoma Park Station, Washington, D. C. · Jun 15, 1916

Say the Loving Words Now

O not keep the alabaster boxes of your love and tenderness sealed up until your friends are dead. Fill their lives with sweetness. Speak approving, cheering words while their ears can hear them, and while their hearts can be thrilled and made happier by them; the kind things you mean to say when they are gone, say before they go. The flowers you mean to send for their coffins, send to brighten and sweeten their homes before they leave them.

“If my friends have alabaster boxes laid away, full of fragrant perfumes of sympathy and affection, which they intended to break over my dead body, I should rather they would bring them out in my weary and troubled hours, and open them, that I may be refreshed and cheered by them while I need them. I should rather have a plain coffin without a flower, a funeral without a eulogy, than a life without the sweetness of love and sympathy.”

“Let us learn to anoint our friends beforehand for their burial. Post-mortem kindness does not cheer the troubled spirit. Flowers on the coffin cast no fragrance backward over life's weary way.”