p. 11 | TABLE TALK

Pacific Press Publishing Company · Oakland, California · Dec 5, 1892

TABLE TALK.

A SULLEN, silent meal is a direct promoter of dyspepsia. “Laugh and grow fat” is an ancient adage embodying good hygienic doctrine. It has long been well understood that food digests better when seasoned with agreeable conversation, and it is important that unpleasant topics should be avoided. Mealtime should not be the occasion to discuss troubles, trials, and misfortunes, which rouse only gloomy thoughts, impair digestion, and leave one at the close of the meal worried and wearied rather than refreshed and strengthened. Let vexatious questions be banished from the family board. Fill the time with bright, sparkling conversation, but do not talk business or discuss neighborhood gossip. Do not let the food upon the table furnish the theme of conversation; neither praise nor apology are in good taste. Parents who make their food thus an especial topic of conversation are instilling into their children’s minds a notion that eating is the best part of life, whereas it is only a means to a higher end, and should be so considered. Of all family gatherings the meals should be the most genial and pleasant, and with a little effort they may be made most profitable to all. It is said of Dr. Franklin that he derived his peculiarly practical turn of mind from his father’s table talk.

Let themes of conversation be of general interest, in which all may take part. If there are children, a pleasant custom for the breakfast hour is to have each in turn relate something new and instructive that he or she has read or learned in the interval since the breakfast hour the previous day. This stimulates thought and conversational power, while music, history, adventure, politics, and all the arts and sciences offer ample scope for securing interesting items.

Another excellent plan is the selection of a special topic for conversation for each meal or for the meals of a day or a week, a previous announcement of the topic being made, that all, even the youngest, may have time to prepare something to say of it. The benefit from such social intercourse around the board can hardly be overestimated; and if thus the mealtime is prolonged, and too much is taken out of the busy day, be sure it will add to their years in the end, by increasing health and happiness.—Science in the Kitchen.