1 Corinthians 7:6

But I speak this by permission, and not of commandment.

Speaking by permission is distinct from speaking by commandment, so that a personal wish can be expressed without being set forth as a command from God. Permission in this sense leaves the hearer free rather than bound by divine instruction. Thus the request for John Wessels to consider helping to establish a sanitarium in Australia was permission and not a divine instruction that he must go. He was to seek the Lord for himself and follow where God led, rather than acting merely from human persuasion.