Hebrews 13:3
Remember them that are in bonds, as bound with them; and them which suffer adversity, as being yourselves also in the body. Remember them that are in bonds, as bound with them; and them which suffer adversity, as being yourselves also in the body.
Hebrews 13:3 commands compassionate solidarity, remembering those in bonds as if bound with them and those suffering adversity as if sharing their hardship in the body. Those to be remembered are the imprisoned and the oppressed, and more broadly the discouraged, tempted, sick, sorrowful, needy and brokenhearted. They include those bound by sin, remorse, weariness, sorrow and discouragement, who feel stunned, staggering, sinking, tired, tempted and confused.
Such remembrance means entering into their condition with fellowship, encouragement and practical help that restores and lifts up. It heals the brokenhearted and works to free the oppressed, helping the fallen to stand again and binding up the wounds made by sin. Strength already gained is to be used to benefit and bless struggling fellow beings, and there is sustaining power in the deed done for them.
Helping includes inspiring hope, showing the erring what he may become, telling him that Christ died for him so that he may be accepted in the Beloved, pointing him to One who saves completely, and helping him take hold of mercy and trust in forgiving power. The verse forbids the opposite course of exploiting hope, destroying hope, adding to burdens, casting down and destroying. Specifically forbidden are words that deepen shame, hasty angry words spoken under provocation, denunciation and recrimination, neglect and exalting of self, which cut influence and may put the soul on the road to destruction.