Jesus Comforts His Disciples in the Upper Roomby emmanuel_higgins

John 13:23

Now there was leaning on Jesus’ bosom one of his disciples, whom Jesus loved.

At the Passover supper the guests reclined on their left arms with right hands free, so John seated at Jesus' right could rest his head against his Master's breast in close communion as the betrayal unfolded. The disciple whom Jesus loved is John himself, who conceals his own name from modesty and unwillingness to boast of the honor. His leaning expresses a warm, loving companionship he often enjoyed and longed for, and he is called beloved most because he most closely imitated Christ's character and was filled with love. Beside him at that same table sat Judas the false-hearted betrayer, whose secret purpose Jesus alone knew yet bore with in patient love, even washing his feet and giving him the dipped sop. That closeness shows that earnest faith and loving obedience bring believers very near to Jesus, and calls for humility, repentance and unity rather than striving for the highest place.

Supper Setting and Sequence

The leaning reflects the reclining custom at the Passover meal, where guests rested on their left arms with their right hands free to eat, so that one could lean his head back against the breast of the one seated next above him. At that supper John was on Jesus' right, while Judas pressed for the place on Jesus' left, determined to be next to Christ and seeking the highest place in the jealous contest for status among the disciples.

The scene belongs to the Passover supper as the betrayal unfolds, with the disciple whom Jesus loved reclining close beside Him in intimate communion with his Master amid the distress of the announcement that one would betray Him. It was part of the last evening when Jesus tenderly served His disciples before Judas went out to betray Him. On that evening Jesus washed the feet of the disciples including Judas and shared the table and the sacrament with the betrayer present, while the disciples did not know that angels were present witnessing what took place, including their contention.

From that closeness John could observe Jesus' troubled expression and movements and could ask Him privately about the betrayal. Deeply distressed himself, he asked Jesus to identify the betrayer. The questioning came after Jesus had said that he that receives whom He sends receives Him and Him that sent Him, and after Jesus was troubled in spirit and testified that one would betray Him, while the disciples looked on one another doubting of whom He spoke. Then the disciple lying on His breast asked, Lord, who is it, and Jesus answered that it was he to whom He would give the dipped sop. He gave the sop to Judas Iscariot the son of Simon, tenderly including Judas in serving the disciples and revealing the betrayer's purpose as a final appeal. After the sop Satan entered into Judas, Jesus said, That thou doest, do quickly, and Judas having received the sop went immediately out, and it was night, having ignored that appeal so that his course was decided.

In his deep distress at the announcement that one of the disciples would betray Jesus, John also asked whether he himself was the one.

John the Beloved Disciple

The disciple whom Jesus loved was John, who in his own Gospel concealed that he himself was the one so honored. That concealment was humility, a refusal to seek attention or to boast of his own standing. John had a warm, loving disposition and enjoyed Christ's friendship and special confidence, standing among the three who witnessed Jesus' glory at the transfiguration and His agony in Gethsemane, and to him Jesus entrusted His mother in His final hours on the cross. He is called the disciple Jesus loved most because he was the closest imitator of Christ's character and was filled with the spirit of love, showing that the pure, those who are good and do good, are very near to Jesus.

His head had often rested on Jesus' bosom, reflecting the close companionship he had enjoyed while walking and talking with Him. He sat beside Jesus and leaned upon His breast, seeking and enjoying close intimacy. That closeness expressed his longing for love, sympathy, and companionship and his openness to Christ's light and life and divine teaching. As he beheld the Saviour in adoration and love, fellowship with Jesus became his chief desire, and his character came to reflect his Master.

That personal closeness gave him much to tell about Christ, and he was preserved as a witness to what Christ had done and to the revelation given to him. He loved Jesus with all the power of his being and delighted to honor Him, and more than half a century passed between that leaning and his banishment to Patmos for fidelity, where he beheld his glorified Lord and Christ opened to him the future of the church and of the world. He is the disciple who knew and believed God's love, so his leaning close gives confidence that God loves His people through trials and sorrows. The leaning supplies the image of trusting closeness to Jesus on which the believer may rely near life's end amid fear and trouble before peaceful rest and hear His reassurance.

The same beloved disciple who leaned on Jesus' breast and beheld His glory later fell as one dead before the angel, showing that closeness to Jesus and a vision of divine glory lead to humility rather than self-exaltation. John's mild, patient, meek character helped check Peter's ardent zeal when it went too far, restraining him with mild caution after his denial and conversion. His patient forbearance and deep devotion also won many people to Christ.

Warning and Example

The leaning disciple sat beside Jesus at the meal where Judas, one of the chosen apostles, was present as a false-hearted betrayer. Jesus knew Judas would betray Him and still bore with him patiently, and that dealing shows Christ's long patience with perverse human nature and His desire not to lose a soul. His example in bearing with Judas teaches patience toward those at fault.

Jesus alone knew Judas's secret purpose to betray Him while the other disciples knew nothing of it. Judas did not look like a villain but was regarded by the others as a man of great capabilities, with breadth of knowledge and valuable qualifications. Jesus did not expose him and gave him no word of rebuke, but treated him with goodness, humility, and love as He had treated all through their whole association, bathing and wiping his soiled feet first. Judas's heart thrilled with an impulse to then confess and cast out Satan, but he braced his soul against light and held to darkness until he became traitor. The other disciples were left ashamed, mortified, conscience-stricken, subdued, and broken, with hearts going out to Jesus in earnest faith working by love and purifying the soul.

Jesus shared the supper table with Judas though He knew Judas would leave that table to betray Him, washing even Judas's feet and not refusing him a place. The foot-washing before the Lord's supper is to recall the Lord's humility, to clear away misunderstandings, evil surmisings, and bitterness over trifles, and to bring people out of selfishness, self-exaltation, and seeking the highest place into humility that will wash a brother's feet. No one is to be deferred or refused as unworthy, and no one is to refuse to attend because another present is judged unworthy, since human beings cannot read the soul or tell who is worthy. At that supper-table revelation Jesus showed Judas that He knew Judas was about to betray Him, leaving Judas without reason to think Jesus was ignorant when he came to betray Him in Gethsemane. Yet even then hope remained, and free forgiveness would have been given if Judas had confessed his traitor's work, the same saving mercy afterward given the thief on the cross.

The account of Judas betraying his Master teaches everyone, especially youth, to work out salvation with fear and trembling and to keep religious influence genuine and faith in Christ as a personal Saviour unwavering, so they will never betray Christ as Judas did. The chapter to which the leaning belongs must be studied carefully and prayerfully because its instruction expresses God's will for His people. Its call is to humility, repentance, and dependence on God rather than striving for higher position or seeking to be first. Its teaching is to be lived out in practical life, including living Christ's prayer, to cure dissension and produce unity and love with one another and with Christ.

The verse presents John in close relationship with Jesus as one whom Jesus loved, showing that earnest faith and loving obedience bring believers into a similarly close relationship with Christ. Yet the loving disciple who had leaned on Jesus' breast later slept in Gethsemane while Jesus endured anguish. Even John's love did not keep him awake to share in his Master's sorrow, pray with Him, and meet His need for prayer.