Luke 2:48
And when they saw him, they were amazed: and his mother said unto him, Son, why hast thou thus dealt with us? behold, thy father and I have sought thee sorrowing. And when they saw him, they were amazed: and his mother said unto him, Son, why hast thou thus dealt with us? behold, thy father and I have sought thee sorrowing.
At twelve years old during the Passover visit to Jerusalem, after a day's journey without Him and three sorrowful days seeking Him, Mary and Joseph found Jesus in the temple among the learned teachers and in amazement His mother asked why He had remained behind and caused them such anxious grief. Her question was spoken as a reproof that wrongly cast blame on Him for the separation, when they themselves had lost Him through absorption in company and talk and neglect of watchfulness and prayer. His mother called Joseph His father and revealed how little they yet grasped His divine Sonship and the meaning of the Passover that pointed to His saving work. His answer that He must be about His Father's business respectfully turned the censure back upon them, declaring that His life was wholly governed by His heavenly Father's will and mission to reveal God and redeem the fallen. Their experience warns followers that Christ can be lost sight of through carelessness and recovered only after many sorrowful days, and it calls parents and disciples to honor earthly ties while placing duty to God first and making everything subordinate to the work He gives.
Passover Visit Setting
Luke 2:48 belongs to Jesus' Passover visit to Jerusalem as a boy when He was twelve years old. That was the age at which a Hebrew boy was considered a son of the law and was expected to take part in the sacred feasts. Joseph and Mary attended the Passover each year, and on this occasion they brought Him with them to Jerusalem.
The feast drew worshipers from across Palestine and the wider Jewish diaspora. Pilgrims traveled in large groups, and the journey from Galilee took several days. For many the observance of the Passover had become formal, but its ceremonies held deep meaning for Jesus because they portrayed His saving work and helped reveal His mission. The temple rites and the meaning of the Passover began to show Him the work He would do for the covenant people descended from Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob.
He had grown from infancy toward manhood under God's protection, remaining without sin. He grew up in a humble home at Nazareth under His parents' instruction, and as a child He was faithful in His work. He made His home there for thirty years, living unhonored and unknown. Nazareth had become proverbial for wickedness and was regarded as the worst of the people of Palestine, a town of bad reputation from which it was thought a wonder if any good thing could come, a place of moral darkness and misery.
Christ, the mighty Worker to uplift and regenerate the whole human soul, commenced there by becoming a citizen of that lowly place and setting His own feet upon the paths the poor and neglected souls must tread. Thus the Light of the world pours contempt upon human pride of place, station, honor, and fame. He might have made His home in places of renown, but He did not, lest His followers who were compelled to live in lowly places should frame an excuse for their sins and for their rough, hard, uncourteous characters. One who left the courts of heaven and took humanity upon Himself to live out a pure human character made His abode among those far down in the scale of popularity and morality, to demonstrate that any place, however hard and lowly, if it is our post of duty, can be made honorable by fidelity.
After being found in the temple following His parents' search for Him, Jesus returned home and worked with His father as a carpenter, helping to support the family. Ordinary useful work was not degrading.
Sorrowful Search and Discovery
The loss came to light on the homeward journey from Jerusalem when the company halted to rest, and Mary and Joseph looked in vain for the Boy among kinsfolk and acquaintances. They turned back alone to retrace their steps to Jerusalem, cut off from the active companionship of friends and relatives. They sought their lost Son with troubled, heartsore, sorrowing anxiety and a keen sense of responsibility for the sacred trust committed to them. The search lasted three days, stopping at every place and questioning every traveler, until they came again to the temple courts and up the marble steps.
After three days they found Him in the temple in the school of the rabbis, seated in the midst of the grave and learned doctors, scribes, teachers, lawyers, and wise men. He sat as a learner listening to them and asking discreet questions, and His questions and answers gave manifest proofs of superior wisdom, penetration, and mature judgment. They threw great light into their minds, bringing gems of light and new thoughts about the Messiah. All who heard were astonished, and His words started trains of thought never to be forgotten.
When His parents saw Him they were amazed and gratified to see Him thus honored among the dignitaries of the temple. Amid large numbers flocking to the temple they knew His well-known voice marked with solemn melody before they could see Him for the crowd. They gazed in astonishment at His questions and answers, with divinity flashing through humanity in His countenance. Light flashed into their minds and left them scarcely knowing what to say.
Their fear and grief had been heightened by dread that harm had come to Him and by the memory of Herod's attempt to kill Him as an infant and massacre of the children. To find Him unharmed brought great joy and relief. Mary afterward remembered that anguish, and the same sorrowing anxiety returned when she later waited anxiously for His return.
Mary's Reproving Question
It was His mother who spoke to Him, at one point alone, asking why He had dealt thus with them and left them, saying that His father Joseph and she had sought Him sorrowing and anxiously. The exchange came after they found Him in the school of the rabbis, and her distress was heightened by the memory of Herod's attempt to kill Him as an infant, so that finding Him brought great joy and relief. The amazement at the scene belonged both to the people and to His parents, who were gratified to see Him thus honored among the grave and learned doctors, scribes, teachers, lawyers and wise men. That amazement was greater because His parents were poor and He had not received the advantages of education, yet His discreet questions and answers gave manifest proofs of superior wisdom, penetration and mature judgment.
Mary's words were spoken in a reproving manner and implied a rebuke and censure, expressing grief, anxiety and distress over His tarrying at Jerusalem. They wrongly reflected blame onto Jesus for remaining in Jerusalem as though He had wronged them and caused their distress, instead of acknowledging their own neglect of the sacred trust and responsibility entrusted to them. They had lost Him through their own neglect by leaving without Him and becoming absorbed in conversation and visiting on the return journey. That neglect included vain talking, jesting, joking, evil speaking, and neglect of watchfulness and prayer, by which they forgot Him for an entire day.
Her calling Joseph His father reflects their family relationship, while their sorrow revealed their sense of responsibility for Him. His absence also exposed how little they had understood the prophecies and the significance of the Passover, which contemplated would have revealed His mission. Jesus respectfully and modestly turned the censure back upon them and pointed heavenward to His Father's business. Mary in great measure understood that His Father meant Jehovah, not Joseph, and laid the saying in her heart to ponder.
Yet His words about His Father's business were a mystery to them that filled them with solemn awe, and they did not understand them. From then on His way of acting remained a mystery to them. Mary kept His sayings in her heart to ponder, marking His words, His spirit, and His willing obedience.
Heavenly Father and Mission
Mary's sorrowing question when she found the boy among the teachers draws out His answer that He must be about His Father's business. The work He was then doing in the temple was the very work He had come into this world to do. His reply reveals the central and guiding purpose of His life.
His life, desires, wishes, and choices were governed by and wholly subject to His mission from God and His Father's will. That purpose was to do God's will and serve in obedience to God's law, placing His own wishes beneath His mission. His life was devoted to His heavenly Father's work.
The visit marks when Jesus realized He was indeed the Son of God with a special work before Him, beginning to realize His relation to His heavenly Father. At twelve He already knew the work before Him and was beginning to make this clear, showing He understood His Sonship to God and His Father's work. That work was revealing God, explaining God's word to Israel's leaders, and showing new meaning in their sacrifices and offerings. Even in youth He brought His wishes into strict abeyance to His mission and glorified His life by making everything in it subordinate to His Father's will and His mission to redeem the fallen. His answer is the keynote of His life-work of constant self-sacrifice, making every desire and earthly claim subordinate to His Father's work.
Though His life often looked like that of other children, His divinity was veiled in humanity. Divinity flashing through humanity illuminated His face with the light and glory of heaven and started trains of thought never to be forgotten. He stayed because He understood God had given Him a duty and recognized the moment to teach His parents that His heavenly Father's claims came first. He then went down with them to Nazareth and lived subject to them, yet He never lost the realization of His future work and knowledge that He must labor to save the lost. He kept faithful watch over every faculty lest Satan gain advantage, lived in every action as the Son of God representing the Father, and lost no opportunity to make others sons of God.
Though His public ministry did not begin for eighteen years, He constantly ministered even in childhood in words of comfort and tenderness to young and old. Having laid off His royal robe and kingly crown to labor as the son of a poor family, He lived a life of perfect obedience without a single offense to be a pattern for every soul. He steadfastly followed the Lord's instruction rather than the counsel of priests and rulers even under those regarded as God's messengers. Joseph and especially Mary kept His divine Fatherhood before them, instructed Him according to His mission, and found gratification in His inclination to the right and willing obedience.
Prophecy Warning and Discipleship
The three days in which He was separated from them foreshadowed the coming time when His death for the sins of the world would separate Him from them, after which He would reveal Himself and be found of them and their faith would rest upon Him as the Redeemer and their advocate with the Father. Their sorrowful search stands as a warning that those who follow Christ may lose sight of Him through carelessness and neglect of watchfulness and prayer, and that the recovery of His presence and of the peace and comfort of His grace may require many sorrowful days.
The setting shows that human authority, even parental authority, cannot override conscience or duty to God, for His duty to His heavenly Father's work came before earthly ties. He had remained because He understood that God had given Him a duty, and He recognized the moment to teach His parents that His heavenly Father's claims came first. He was to love, obey, and honor His earthly parents in everything that did not conflict with duty to God.
His life was held in abeyance to His great work of redemption, with everything made subordinate to the mission He came to accomplish and every desire and earthly claim made subordinate to His Father's work and His mission to redeem the fallen. That consecration calls His disciples to the same devotion, self-denial, self-sacrificing spirit, and subjection to the claims of the Word of God, making everything subordinate to their mission to glorify God and cooperate with Him in saving sinners rather than serving or pleasing themselves. Social claims and earthly affections are to be placed beneath the work God gives them. Having laid off His royal robe and kingly crown to come into this world and labor as the son of a poor family in a life of perfect obedience without offense in a single instance, His course was to be a pattern for every human soul, calling for the same consecration to the will of God with hearts softened by the Holy Spirit, giving Christ entrance into the home and accepting the saving merits of the crucified and risen Saviour unto deeper love for God and stronger determination to serve Him.
Their natural habit of regarding Him merely as their own child put them in danger of overlooking the blessing of His presence and the high favor God had shown in entrusting the Son of God to their care, and His remaining in Jerusalem gently reminded them of their duty and kept His divine mission from being obscured by treating Him only as their child. Though His life often appeared like that of other children because His divinity was veiled in humanity, His presence with them was a special trust and blessing. Because Christ was once a little child, mothers for His sake should deal gently with little ones and honor them as a sacred charge from God and as God's property, loved by Him, not to be indulged, petted, and idolized but to be taught to live a pure, noble life and, in cooperation with Him, to form perfect characters.